I don't even know how to explain this. Mike McLaughlin from the CVSA said I needed to talk to a Social Worker. Fine, Social Workers are caring people. So she calls me, and I miss the call because I had to wait on hold for AT&T. My sister, who's my care giver, wouldn't stay there and handle the 15-some minutes of "your call is important to us," when I was calling to get my phone, deactivated by Tracfone after I was a customer since 2002, reactivated, because she thought AT&T wouldn't want my business. I wanted to save my cellphone number, which I'm losing because Tracfone found the phone I'd been using with them since I got it, a perfectly fine Samsung Galaxy S7, won't work with the sim Verizon sent me. Because it needs AT&Ts towers. Locked? What do I care, I need to save my cellphone number so people can verify my identity -- insecurely, but what can I do?
"Your call is important to us." So why was I on hold for 15 minutes? How long does a _very_ important call wait? Was I too important, or not important enough? I'm Autistic. Autistic people get confused sometimes. But I missed this call from this caring Social Worker I was looking forward to.
Finally got back and called the Social Worker back. I asked if I was eligible for VA health coverage. She thought I was, but had to send a form off to get me on her docket or whatever so she would be allowed to call me. But she was already on the phone with me...
So I asked if she needed the form. "Yes, so I can call you on my whatchamacallit." But she was already on the phone with me, just before 5 pm this was. "I have another meeting to get to," the Social Worker said. "I have to call you back tomorrow to do a 30-minute survey to make sure you're eligible." ????
"Do you need the form?" "Well, I need to get you on my docket so I can call you tomorrow." "We can't get this done tonight?" I wondered if she was protecting me from something. "No, I have to call you back tomorrow to..." "But Microsoft is shutting off the Skype Number service, so I dunno if you'll even be able to." I don't know if she understood me, because she was talking while I was talking. I asked if I was being rude: no. I asked if she was being rude by talking over me: also no... wait...
I told her I was Rev Dr David "Grizzly" Smith, DDHC, Honorus causa that last bit is, an honorary degree I got from ULC, that church you don't think is a real church. I asked her once again if I was being rude, asking her to get the 30 minute call done now so I could be eligible for my VA benefits now, which Mike McLaughlin, a fellow USAF veteran, says I should be.
"I have another meeting." Apparently after 5 pm. But she couldn't do her 30 minute call for tomorrow, because she has to send this form off to another department, because Policy. I called her back, she's on the phone with me, she's not being rude talking over me... And she confirmed repeatedly I'm not being rude to her...
But she wouldn't complete the 30-minute call she was already on so I could be eligible right away and say so to Essentia Health Duluth. She said she didn't need the form, but "I have another meeting" when I was requesting to get the call done with in case I lost the use of my Skype Number...
But she wasn't being rude? I'm sorry, I'm autistic, I miss things, why wouldn't it be rude for her to talk over me? Why isn't it rude to tell me she won't finish giving me my benefits because "I have another meeting," and "policy..."
Can someone explain this to me?
Rev Dr David "Grizzly" Smith, DDHC
ULC considers me a minister (one who ministers to others, cares for them) and a Doctor of Divinity Honorus Causa, "Caused by Honor." The USAF considers me an honorably discharged veteran who is eligible for VA benefits. I'm also Autistic, have osteoarthritis, maccular degeneration in my left eye due to glaucoma, and Multiple Myeloma. But she has "another meeting," and has to send a form elsewhere so she can call me back tomorrow to say so. But she's already on the phone with me. But "I have another meeting." I want to complete the 30 minute call while we're on the phone right now, but...
Can someone explain this to me in a way that makes sense? Mike, fellow USAF veteran, can you explain why her "another meeting" was more important than finishing with me?
Griz